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Forum Moderator Grand Wizard |
Kelly, First of all, no sob story at all. Just the absolute truth. And, the feelings are 100% mutual. The guilt of not working becomes overwhelming at times. As does the house not being tidy unless the family does it while I lie in bed. Same with missing friends and kid's events, helping with homework, cooking dinner...it is a terrrible cycle.
I try to have the theory that all they can do is say no but when it takes months on end just to find out....uuuugggghhhh. Either tell me no or send me something saying "we are working on your case". I admit, I have cried at times because I want to work and feel useless at times. I have always been able to work up until recently. I want to contribute more than just a prescence in our home; a paycheck means a lot. Not just financially of course, but, emotionally too. It gives a sense of accomplishment and pride. Yeah, I hate the why aren't you working question. Especially when the reply back from them is, oh, a headache? Hmmmm. You just want to scream sometimes! Hey, if you have a party house, maybe we can all join in LOL Laura Forum Moderator ***You're welcome to enter your birthday, etc in the Celebrate folder so we can party with you!! =) *** |
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Maven |
Come on over! I think in another post you said you wished that there was a place where we could meet where we were all migraine/headache free and could exchange hugs and appreciation! I'm totally with you on that one! Well, if your wish came true, I could actually throw the party at my house b/c I'd feel up to having a party! Kelly my blog: http://flywithhope.blogspot.com/ "Though perseverance does not come from our power, yet comes within our power." - St. Francis de Sales |
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Forum Moderator Grand Wizard |
Kelly,
That would be awesome!! I love a good party, especially when we are ALL pain free and can have lots of fun One day my wish will come true!!!!! So, be ready Laura Forum Moderator ***You're welcome to enter your birthday, etc in the Celebrate folder so we can party with you!! =) *** |
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Forum Moderator Grand Wizard |
Well, I called disability again, I actually waited over a month to do it and my actual case worker was there (glad she is doing well).
She said my final med records from my new neuro just came in Tuesday and asked me to call her next Thursday if I hadn't heard anything yet. Laura Forum Moderator ***You're welcome to enter your birthday, etc in the Celebrate folder so we can party with you!! =) *** |
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Maven |
Thanks for the update, Laura. I hope that you hear something soon!
Kelly my blog: http://flywithhope.blogspot.com/ "Though perseverance does not come from our power, yet comes within our power." - St. Francis de Sales |
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Forum Moderator Grand Wizard |
Thanks Kelly. Right now, Thursday feels so far away LOL!
Laura Forum Moderator ***You're welcome to enter your birthday, etc in the Celebrate folder so we can party with you!! =) *** |
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Forum Moderator Grand Wizard |
Hey guys! Wow, first let me say when I pulled this post up my ticker said "13 days"....how cool would that be?
Anyway, I figured I would let you's know what is going on....I am in limbo but have called disability faithfully every week. My paperwork is in Philly and I should have an answer by the EOM Laura Forum Moderator ***You're welcome to enter your birthday, etc in the Celebrate folder so we can party with you!! =) *** |
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Maven |
I'll be praying for you Laura. You can count it.
Kelly my blog: http://flywithhope.blogspot.com/ "Though perseverance does not come from our power, yet comes within our power." - St. Francis de Sales |
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Grand Wizard |
Laura, I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you.
-MJ my blog: http://rhymeswithmigraine.blogspot.com/ “HOPE CAN GROW FROM THE SOIL OF ILLNESS!” This is the theme of 2008’s National Invisible Chronic Illness Awareness Week in September. Drop by and find out ways to encourage a friend, be encouraged yourself, and spread the word. http://www.InvisibleIllness.com "What will you do, if it does not turn out how you expect?" "I do not know. Nor shall I worry about it until it happens. I still have an action left to take; until I have exhausted it, I shall not despair." - Robin Hobb, Assassin's Quest |
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Forum Moderator Grand Wizard |
Kelly & MJ- Thanks a bunch for continuing to think of me. It means so much!!
Laura Forum Moderator ***You're welcome to enter your birthday, etc in the Celebrate folder so we can party with you!! =) *** |
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Forum Moderator Grand Wizard |
Hey guys!! Can you say Merry Christmas? I got a call Friday from SSDI office and they said I was approved by the Board. <big huge sigh of relief>.
I was down with a migraine and couldn't celebrate properly but boy was I excited to hear the news! I have no idea how much or when it starts but just knowing that some assistance is coming is a Godsend for sure! Laura Forum Moderator ***You're welcome to enter your birthday, etc in the Celebrate folder so we can party with you!! =) *** |
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Maven |
Yea!
I'm sorry to hear you have a migraine. I hope you are feeling better. Yahoo for this wonderful news! Sending hugs of celebration! my blog: http://flywithhope.blogspot.com/ "Though perseverance does not come from our power, yet comes within our power." - St. Francis de Sales |
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Forum Moderator Grand Wizard |
Hi Kelly and Nut; Thank you so much!! My head is actually doing great. Day 2 of no pain.
Nut-I see you are migaining...feel better!! Laura Forum Moderator ***You're welcome to enter your birthday, etc in the Celebrate folder so we can party with you!! =) *** |
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Grand Wizard |
Laura, I am so excited for you! What wonderful news to come at Christmas! Glad to hear that your head is doing better, too.
-MJ my blog: http://rhymeswithmigraine.blogspot.com/ “HOPE CAN GROW FROM THE SOIL OF ILLNESS!” This is the theme of 2008’s National Invisible Chronic Illness Awareness Week in September. Drop by and find out ways to encourage a friend, be encouraged yourself, and spread the word. http://www.InvisibleIllness.com "What will you do, if it does not turn out how you expect?" "I do not know. Nor shall I worry about it until it happens. I still have an action left to take; until I have exhausted it, I shall not despair." - Robin Hobb, Assassin's Quest |
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