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Hi, I am a 45 year old male, married for 19 years. And I have a problem with premature ejaculation. It's not really a health issue, but more of an issue of not being able to have sex very often. Me and my wife don't get the chance to make love very often and when we do, I cannot last very long before I have an orgasm. And this is causing some problems in our marriage as I have to give her oral sex in order to bring her to climax before we have intercourse. I don't mind the oral sex, and she doesn't really, but she would prefer not to. And after ejaculation, I do go limp for a period of time before I can get erect again. Is there any way I can control and prolong my orgasm?
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