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Guys, I have tussled with the ADSL company for almost two weeks, so that's why I've been out of the loop. I've read your comments, all of which I appreciate. My urologist uses the Coloplast system(Google it to see details) and have never had that negative experience in pumping or the condition of my penis after the fluid enters the shaft. As I said, the main problem is the discomfort in protecting the penis from rubbing against any material - underwear, etc. I began using a 1/4 inch soft foam wrap and switched to a thinner rubber wrap, secured by rubber bands(eventualy with velcro strips). As some of you have said, the firmness and angle varies, so each day is different. As for penetration, I am now comfortable with squeezing the pump sufficiently(8-12 times) for maximum rigidity. However, I have been unable to ejaculate, irregardless of whether it's done vaginally, orally or manually. So she is happy, but I'd like to climax myself...
Baraka. Have you tried the doggie style? That was my first successful method of ejaculation. Second one, that we use now most of the time is her on top with my legs outside of hers.
Took me about nine months to be OK with it. If it hasn't been that long yet, don't get impatient. I know you probably aren't any more impatient than I was, but I didn't have others to answer my questions when I went through this and I was really scared. I thought everything had gone wrong.
Posts: 11 | Location: McAllen Texas, USA | Registered: 10-06-2008
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