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hey, so i'm 42 in s.f. pretty sure my problem is psychcological too. my problem is usually getting one in the first place. when i'm alone it's fine, although i have been alone and reached orgasm while still semi-erect. in our case there seems to be a snowball effect; you worry, that causes dysfunction which causes you to worry more etc.. i'm searching for a book i glanced at(but did'nt buy out of embarassment) years ago(pre-viagra era) that addressed the subject and even had excercises you could do.(not just a list of pills available). when /if i find it, i'll let you kn ow. it's focus(if i remember) was that you(we) need to learn to become/stay erect due to the physical sensations you feel, NOT from visuals/fantasies in your head. you masturbate, (always with lube) and try and clear your mind of everything but the sensations you feel, as soon as you start picturing/fantasizing things in your head(trying too hard), you stop. if you get frustrated, you stop. anyway thats the jist of it. i'm no expert, nor have i actually 'cured' myself, but that book was the only one i've seen that went into that much. i've been searching for support group in s.f.(more aimed at psychological e.d.) but am always lead back to the web for 'chat' groups. maybe we should start one. would be nice talk to others..maybe even others who've made some progress. let me know...r
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