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I am a 31 year old female who is in a new relationship with a 24 year old. When we first started becoming intimate, it was obvious he had a problem even getting an erection. At first he blamed it on stress and some family problems that he was dealing with that he just couldn't get out of his head. After a few months I started to, of course, assume the worst and think that maybe he wasn't attracted to me. We came to a point that I just finally confronted him (in a nice way) to talk about what was going on. He told me that when he was about 6 or 7 he hit himself on the bar of a bicycle and that his penis and testicles were swollen and bruised for about 2 months. His family didn't have insurance and didn't take him to the hospital. He says that when he has sex, his testicles start to hurt so badly that he has to stop. Here's the strange part, we went on a trip and after a few more failed attempts at sex with me (he initiated) he went and masterbated in the shower. He has no problem getting hard when he masterbates as he has done it while we are in bed to try and maintain an erection. He gets very hard, but as soon as he stops, he goes soft again.
I am trying so hard to be understanding, but I have needs too. I've tried talking him about seeing a doctor, but he keeps giving me excuses. I really don't know what to do. I don't want to end things with him because I do care about him, but our relationship is getting more and more strained each time it happens.
Any advice or suggestions would really be appreciated. I'm really at my wit's end here.
You are still so young and I feel for you. It is very embarrassing at first, but if your in a committed relationship seek help together. My husband and I have tried everything herbal, medical from pills to injections and now know the only fix is surgical. Try whatever it takes! They feel less of a man and only want to please you but it's still emotional to lose the closeness of it. Good luck. We're all learning and trying to make the best of it!
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