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uh.. i feel so lost, and i am so sick of cry at night
my husband and i are neelweds. less than a year. i am 24 and have a very high sexdrive for a female, and i like it all. my husband is on the conservative side..but we stil had a good sex life while dating. well since we got married, it has slowed down, to the point now, we have had sex 3 times in the past 2 1/2 months. i just cant take it anymore, i have asked him everything . am i fat, even though i haven't gained one lb. since we have been married. i know that he has losted hes job, so i was supportive, well now he has a job. and still.....NO zex.. i just cry all the time. he isn't into dirty movies or toys. so i stopped all that... and still nothing....
i just dont know what to do besides cry, i mean he is 28...hes too young for ED right?????
Tonight i finally got him to talk about it. he said that he dosent know whats wrong. he said hes just not jonry, doens't masterbate or even think about sex..and that have sex is more like work"- yea thoes were hes exact words... i think i liked the i dont know answer better.
someone please help me, i feel like my marriage is falling apart before it even starts....
on yea i even asked him if he was cheating and he got so upset and said no.. which i dont think he is..idk
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I truly wish I could help you. I am in the same boat as you are except that I've been with my man since high school. I married him when I was 25 and we've been married for nearly 9 years. He used to have occassional ED even when he was 16, it progessed steadily over time, and now it's constant.
He doesn't seem to be into sex anymore either. He had a very strict, cold, and religious upbringing, and he won't even masturbate. I know he's not cheating on me and I know he's not gay. I weigh the same as our wedding day and always do my best to keep up my appearance. I am open to just about anything sexually and have indulged him in every concievable way, but nothing seems to work.
Sure, you could pill him up, but after a while, it becomes a bit insulting to wait for him to "gear himself up" to have sex. In addition, he still needs to want to have sex when on the pill. My husband uses Cialis (imho much better and safer than Viagra), and even these days it takes longer and longer for it to kick in. His problem is not physical, it psychological.
I am finally giving my husband an ultimatum to seek therapy, especially since ED is only one of his physical symptoms that manifested from psychological issues (somatization). If he does not put in an effort to fix this situation, I will either have to leave him or discuss the possibility of an "open" marriage.
The bottom line is this - you are young and sexual and you deserve a happy and fulfilling sex life. Someone who is sexual with you before marriage and then is not after you walk down the aisle either pulled the bait and switch, or has psychological issues about marriage. If he is able to have wet dreams or "morning wood," then the problem is completely psychological. If he refuses to get counseling and/or actively work to fix the marriage and/or ED, then it's better to be a quick divorcee than a miserable woman trapped in a sexless marriage.
Pills can offer temporary relief to take the pressure off, but they should not be a permanent solution. Men who allow themselves to suffer with ED in their early years are more pronoe to heart conditions. For his own health purposes, you should urge your man to consult a psychologist.
thanks for the help guys... it diffently made me feel a little bit better, I am actually a nurse so I understand a lot about ED. Just hes sooo young. but we had talked and had a lunch today and we are seeking help, medical first just to make sure that the hormones and heart and everything are okay, then if that doens't pep up then some theropy... It just made me feel good know that I am not the only one out ther. I have a group of very close friends and all ther husbands are fine. I just wanted someone to talk to, that i didn't know and that didn't know me..... thx
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Hi, I read you comment and I think maybe he really has a psycological, you can try with hot toys, lotions, sex xxx movies, relax place, and some beer or wine, and why not?, he can take Viagra or Cialis...
The most important thing in this case is the comunication..please talk with him, and explain that how you feel..
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