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I have just found this site and I must say I already feel a big weight lifted off my shoulders. I knew there must be other women going through what i'm going through at the moment but I just didn't know where to find you.
I'll try and keep this short and to the point.
I met Grant in August 2007 through an internet dating site. He lives in Manchester and I live in Worcestershire. From the moment I first saw him I just knew i'd met my soulmate and the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I've never felt like that about any man in my life before (not even my ex husband).
Our first date he came down to Worcestershire and stayed over in an hotel. We had a fantastic night. Both of us couldn't keep our hands off each other, however we didn't have sex. We did try but it didn't happen. We had both drunk a lot but I knew inside me it was more than drink. The next morning he asked to see me the following weekend and I went up to Manchester. Again, things were not "happening" and I knew then there was an issue.
At the time of meeting him, he was going through a divorce. His wife had left him after 14 yrs of marriage and I know she was the love of his life and he had been very hurt.
I didn't say anything to him about it because I thought if I make an issue of it, it will make it worse. If I just leave it, hopefully it will just happen naturally.
I noticed the following few weeks, he seemed to be withdrawing from me and keeping me at a distance. He became unreliable, not phoning when he said he was going to and cancelling us seeing each other. We started arguing and to cut a long story short we stopped seeing each other.
First thing on Xmas Day and New Years Day of 2008 he text me and wished me HC and HNY. In the January I asked him to phone me and I told him that I knew he had a problem and that I'd support him and help him and it didn't make any difference to how I felt about him. He was quiet on the phone. You could tell he was so embarrassed but in one way I think he was relieved that I knew without him having to tell me.
I thought things would get better with him knowing that I knew, but how naive of me. He seemed to distance himself even more. He wouldn't speak to me on the phone and kept communication through email and text messages only. I asked him to go and see his doctor, he said he would but he didn't. To cut a long story short, I phoned his doctor and told his doctor his problem, hoping that if Grant knew his doctor was aware of the problem it would be easier for him to go and see him. It didn't!
I didn't hear from Grant from May until last September when he messaged me out of the blue. Since then we have text and emailed. However, again, he wouldn't meet up or phone me. I told him I couldn't go on like this and that life is too short for this and it's a problem which can be sorted out so easily. I must have hit a nerve somewhere because the last three weeks things have got better because we now phone each other once a week and we met up on Thursday for tea. He seemed more confident, sat next to me and held my hand and hugged me (when we met up in Feb, he wouldn't come an inch near me, sit next to me or anything like that).
He said he wants to see me again and next time he might stay over, but he hasn't said when he wants to see me again.
I've asked him to come down on 14th Feb but he has gone quiet (so i know he's worrying about it). I've told him I don't have to stay over with him and also that I will be on so I he can't F**k my brains out (thought if I made out it was me who can't have sex it would make him feel better).
I just don't know what to do. Do I discuss the problem with him on the phone and maybe scare him off completely or do I just say nothing and hope that he will see me on valentines day now he knows that I'm not expecting or wanting sex.
He really has made an effort these past three weeks and I have seen a big difference in him and i'm scared of saying or doing something which will send him back into his cave again.
I love him so much and there is just no other man I want. I know that if it wasn't for this problem we would be together and so happy.
There isn't a day that goes by where I don't cry about it. I just don't know what else I can do.
Sorry for going on but I just need to talk to someone about it.
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Well four months on and nothing has changed. He is still making excuses and no we didn't see each other on Valentines Day.
Our telephone calls have now stopped too (his choice) but he emails me almost every day.
I told him yesterday that after almost two yrs nothing has changed and I just can't take it anymore. He hasn't replied back to that email yet so I know he's thinking about it.
It's just soooo crazy. We are perfect for each other. He knows I will support him but he just won't go and get the help. I do it for him. This is something he has gotto sort out for himself.
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