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I have been married to her for over 16 yrs and now she is trying to move on in her life. the abuse i now know is not limited to her father but included an uncle. my wife now won't let me close to her at all.. and has withdrawn from me.I just need some advise. I still love her,and would like to see her happy again. not sure why all this has came foreward now. we have 3 kids together. daughter 14 daughter 11 and son 4
There's no telling why it came out now, but the more she talks about it, the better. If she has (had) depression from it, go to a doctor, because meds may help her. I only say talking will help, because I was sexually abused by my uncle when I was little, and talking has helped.
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i once had a g/f ( soort of) who was abused this way by her uncle when she was a kid and never got help and it really affected her and our relationship,, when i fainally gave up on the relationship she finally admitted that when i was just next to her it made her uncomfortable and when i tried to get physical she wanted to throw up,, imagine having a g/f and then a fiance who didnt want u near her ,, wouldnt let u touch her ,, she was closer with her college roommate and was still living with the roommate and more concerned what will happen tot eh roommate after we were married than the fatc i was going to move to another state and have a life with her,, im sorry about what u are going thru but i do know
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