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Hi Nikki, I will be the first one to admit that I shouldn't be giving you any medical advice...Bob is best for this sort of thing. But, as far as the kids are concerned, I will let you know how I dealt with it....NOT WELL!!! I say that in all humiliation. When I got really bad, my son who was only 13 at the time and my daughter was only 4 or 5, had to get me out of the bed in the middle of the night while I had raging, screaming pangs of pain and the only thing that helped was if I got out of bed and walked around. I saw what this was doing to my children, so I swallowed my pride, called my Mom and cried, "Mom, I can't do this right now, will you please do it for me?" Be the Grace of God she said yes and still does. My children were much younger than yours though, so I am not giving you the advice to give up your kids, I would never do that. But my daughter was being traumatized by the whole ordeal, it was the hardest on her. My son, such a good boy, helped his little sister so much when I, the Mommy couldn't. Nikki, I can't direct you concerning the situation with which surgeon you chose, because I have had a Neurosurgeon the whole time....I am at a loss for words, Bob would be better to go to for advice. He sure has been a blessing to so many of us. Nikki, I will be praying for you and your children. God Bless, Sheila
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| Posts: 83 | Location: Eve | Registered: 07-06-2008 |    |
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Hi Bob, I noticed in jsd59's post that she still wears a tight wrap. I also have one, but my Neurosurgeon told me not to wear it after my staples were taken out. Now I question his advice. If I would have been wearing the tight wrap (I can't remember the name for it) then my skin never would have torn and I would still have my pump because the only reason that I got the 2nd infection at the pump site, was because of the rip in my skin, or better put, the hole that was developed as a result of the rip in my skin. Do you have any knowledge about these tight wraps? I would feel much better knowing that I will be allowed to continue wearing that after I have the pump put in again. There is no possible way for another rip to happen and an infection developing from the rip, if I would be allowed to wear the wrap. I firmly believe that the only reason that my skin tore at the incision site was due to very deep stretch marks because my skin is soooo very thin there. I no longer have the infection. My second infection was much different than the first one. When the results came back from the cultures that they took of my CSF where the infection was in the incision in my lower back and also the fluid that they collected for the culture of the infection in my pump incision, it was a totally different infection than the first time. I can not remember the name of the infection, but I do remember that somebody (can't remember who) explained to me that the infection from the first pump was much more dangerous than that of the 2nd pump that came out. With the second pump, an infection developed because of the open hole (exposure). I believe that an infection was going to happen because of the open exposure. Like the one doctor told me, I need to count myself extrememly thankful that I didn't end up with Menangitis. Any input would be appreciated. Thanks Bob, Sheila
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| Posts: 83 | Location: Eve | Registered: 07-06-2008 |    |
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Hi Bob, Thanks for the input. With my next pump, I am most definitely going to keep the wrap on. Concerning the infections, I have just let that go. Infections are a complication to surgery. And considering how many surgeries that I have had on my spine, I count myself lucky that I have only had 2. As I wrote earlier, with the 2nd pump, that infection was bound to happen due to many reasons. I am just thankful that the infections never got into my pump. I am trying to change my attitude. Although I am pretty sure that I am going to try to get a Neurosurgeon who only does the Intrathecal Narcotic Pump surgery, rather than a Neurosurgeon who does so many different areas of Neurosurgery. I have never meant to "bad mouth" the Neurosurgeon in any way. The attitude that his Clinical Nurse had with me soured me towards the whole practice and I know that I know that I will be stuck with them for the long haul and I am not comofortable with that idea at all. I greatly admire my Neurosurgeon, in all honesty, he seems to be a good, caring man and doctor. My main concern is how busy he is. He has 8 different clinics in which he has no less than 40 to 45 patients at each clinic. He just finished with his residency since 2006 and that is a concern to me. I am learning to be very choosy and I should have checked more into everything before I chose a doctor to implant the pump. The pump literally gave me my life back and I am thankful for that. My main concern is that no other doctor will even be willing to touch me due to the complications that I have had in the past. Not to mention that I would rather have a surgeon who has many years of experience because I do have very deep stretch marks and my skin is very thin due to them in certain areas. And my pump stuck out horribly, and I am not what anyone would consider a little, petite woman. I am not extrememly overweight, but I could stand to lose 15 to 20 pounds. If I am even given the chance to have the pump again, I will most certainly wear that wrap so that no more skin tears will occur. Take care Bob and thanks again. Sheila
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| Posts: 83 | Location: Eve | Registered: 07-06-2008 |    |
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Hello to everyone,
I have just been reading thru the latest posts and have just a few comments, thoughts, etc.
...When I mentioned in an earlier post that my doctor had me wear a wrap around the area of the pump, it was just after surgery to hold the pump in place until it sort of "set" itself good. At my 1st dr's visit about a week later, he told me to "take it off." The wound needs air to heal also. Ask the doctor.
...If someone has concrete medical advice to explain that a wrap is a good idea on a continual basis, please say so because I too would like to know.
.....Chet, In my opinion,(for what its worth) I would go the 200 miles and get my pump. I used to have to travel pretty far every month just to get my medications. The procedure is usually an overnight thing, then you will visit the doctor several times adjusting your medication,mine was once a week after surgery, then again after two weeks (thats where I am now) But I think sooner than you think, you will be all adjusted and will only have to make that trip once every 2-3 months. You may find out that there may be a pain specialist there closer to you than you think that can do the actual refills of the medication. Just be thankful that you may be getting your pain pump soon!
...Sheila, thats a deal about praying partners! I will be blessed.
.... Also,to Sheila and all, have you ever thought about seeing a physician that specializes in "infectious Diseases?" When I had my last staph infection, the doctor worked hand in hand with one. Because I have had two major staph infections, I am very aware of how easy it can happen. After any kind of surgery, I keep a very close eye on the healing. As a matter of fact, I'm watcing now! If I happen to get one of any kind, I WILL be seeing one of these specialist! I'ts just a thought. Sheila, I probably don't know what I am talking about, but I doubt if your stretch marks have anything to do with anything. (It just don't sound right)
...also,after I had a simple appendectomy, it took 6 months to actually heal. I had a little "hole" that just would not close! It got infected (not staph) and needed anti-biotics. I had to pack it with dressings every day for 6 months!
....FYI..when I had one of my major staph infections, a nurse was coming to the house at least twice a week. One of the things that she did was to measure the progress of the healing of the wound. After the doctor "debrides" the wound, or removes all of the infected part of your body (mine was down, close to spine) the body has to heal from the inside out. Where the fresh meat is & up. Anyway, I learned a very important lesson with their visits. If I ate specifically to heal my body, the nurses would measure a healing! If I ate haphazardly (?) not really focusing on what I was eating, there was NO healing progress! Actual measurements of healing. My husband & I tested it all the time! Now, when I have surgery, I EAT TO HEAL THAT WOUND! This is away that I can help avoid infection also is by rushing that healing process by eating to heal! Watching for every spot on that cut to be scarred over.
....I just want to say, there are good doctors and really good doctors. I don't feel that whether you go to a neurologist or a pain specialist is the question. Its just important to get that REALLY REALLY good doctor. Do your homework. After checking his traning out, ask him/her how often they do THIS particular procedure, how manyetc, get phone numbers. He may be a neurologist but if he seldom does these procedures, I wouldn't want him to do mine!
....So far, my wounds seem to be healing good. I do have a slight concern about the site right at the pump. It seems to be so big. I see the doctor again in a week but if it doesn't go down even just a little bit I may go earlier. Should I be concerned at all?
...Just a note...when looking straight at me (ABDOMEN) you see at my waist level a scar from my leg stimulator. Move over an inch or so then scar from my back stimulator, then go over and not far from my belly button is the new pump! I have become quite a sight!
..Oh, I almost forgot...In my opinion and past pain experiences, I would like to say to the person that has the cage and has not fused yet (I think in almost 9 yrs) and they want to try something else to have it fuse or nuts/bolts tightened or something like that.....Forget it!....Get pain control, wait for better technology! Just my opinion. God Bless.
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jsd59 and Dena, jsd59, thank you so much for explaining to me about the panties, I never thought of that and this is what I am going to do. By the way, your post wasn't long at all, check some of mine out, people probably think I am writing a book either/or a raving idiot LOL. Dena, thanks so much for sharing due to your past experiences as well. So blessed to hear that I now have a prayer partner who truly understands. I never had problems with the healing process before, one of the biggest problems is the smoking. We all know that the pump is a fairly large foreign object, and the healing process is critical with these pumps. Smoking interferes with that healing process. I have the cage and screws and had no problems with infections, BUT this hardware doesn't compare to the size of the pump. My Neurosurgeon wants me to be completely and totally smoke free 30 days prior to surgery. I feel pretty guilty about bad mouthing him when he has been the one that God has used to help me. With my first surgery, which by the way, was a disaster and he even admitted to it....but anyways I was the very first patient to ever have this procedure done at this particular hospital. My Neuro felt really bad about all of the problems that I had but it wasn't his fault. #$%^ happens...right? I am just so thankful that I didn't contract Menangitis which would have killed me. My Neuro is going to have a Plastic Surgeon to close me up with my next pump surgery. I have experienced a whole lot of anxiety and fears concerning this next surgery, since it is the last chance that I will ever have for the pump again. I am finding out that no other doctor will even touch me because of the problems in the past. So, I have to stick it out with my Neuro. It just REALLY bothers me that he is constantly changing his mind!!! I did have a surgery date of August 20th and he called me on the Friday before that date and told me that the Plastic Surgeon who he wanted to assist in closing me up, refused to even participate in the surgery. The Plastic Surgeons policy is that his patients have to be 30 days smoke free in order for him to operate or to assists in surgeries. My Neuro told me on the phone that we could go ahead and do it the 20th, and if I chose to have it done then, that he would be the one closing me up. BUT he told me that this would be the very last time and that he was worried that history would repeat itself due to my smoking interfering with the healing process. He told me that if I decided to wait the 30 days, then he would get me in for surgery ASAP and that the Plastic Surgeon would be there to close me up. I guess this Plastic Surgeon is fantastic. So, I chose to wait the 30 days. When I emailed his Clinical Coordinator, she gave me a totally different story. I asked for a surgery date because my PCP is prescribing my pain meds and he wanted to know what my surgery date was. Well, the Clinical Coordinator told me that my Neuro said that after I was smoke free for 30 days, then he would reconsider doing the surgery. I CAN NOT figure out if my Neuro changed his mind, or if it's the fact that this woman likes to upset me because she doesn't like me at all. I have chosen to be more than 30 days smoke free because of the chance of losing the pump forever. That frightens me more than anything else. Thanks to everyone for the input and this has forum has been such a blessing to me....all of you have been a blessing to me....thank you Bob. God Bless All, Sheila
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| Posts: 83 | Location: Eve | Registered: 07-06-2008 |    |
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