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Sheila,Bob and all, I just want to explain that I am not blaming myself for things as much as I think some of us question as to whether we heard from God correctly. I pray and seek God to help me come to the correct decisions. If I do happen to make an incorrect one I have the assurance that God forgives me, understands and works on my behalf to turn it to good. But, meanwhile, I may be living with the consequences of a bad decision. Through all this, yes I can be an example or inspiration to others, but I try to first make the correct decision through faith,and hearing from the Lord. Then I can advise correctly also and save someone else from the same wrong path. My latest and most urgent question and concern is this: I have two stimulators inside me. One is for my back and the other is for my legs. I thought that the pump was going to handle my pain so I mentioned that the Dr would be taking them out (at least the back stim) He says "no" I do not understand why I need the stimulators if I have the pump. I am trying to decide whether or not I "STRONGLY" request that at least the back stim be taken out when the pump is put in. I do not understand why I should go through an additional surgery later to have it out? Does anyone understand? Does anyone else out there have both back stimulator and pump? Can anyone see why I would need one if the pump is so effective? I have had two major staph infections after surgeries that took about 6 months of healing each, so I'm a little apprehensive. It just doesn't make sense to me. I maybe could see keeping the leg stim, but why would there be a need for the back one? I'm sorry if I seem to be rambling and going on & on......Sure would like to hear some opinions about stimulator. thanks
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Hi all,
The recent posts are very interesting and I just want to make a few comments. Sheila is correct about the differences between the stimulators and the pump. They each work in an entirely different way and are designed to reduce chronic pain from completely different causes.
To put it simply, the pump places a small amount of narcotic medication directly into the spinal cord in which the nerves that cause back pain are located. The stimulator is an electronic device that places electric pulses into wires that are located near the nerves which are causing chronic pain below the spinal cord, usually the legs.
I personally have no experience with and have not researched the stimulator so I can't comment on it with any first-hand knowledge. I do have a TENS ( Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulation) unit which is similar to the implanted stimulator in the way it works but it's used externally with sticky patches attached to the skin. The electrical pulses seem to mask the pain and cause some changes in the way the nerves react.
With regard to the sexual matters some of you have posted, there's no question that chronic pain and some medications will reduce libido in both men and women. Furthermore, back pain can seriously restrict the physical positions a person may need to have sex. I must be frank and somewhat graphic now so I hope no one is offended.
Certainly, someone with lower back pain can't comfortably have sex with thrusting in the typical missionary position. If he or she takes a lot of oral pain medication to reduce or stop the pain, then the medication itself can reduce libido so one partner no longer wishes to engage in sexual activities.
The best solution is to try other physical positions and, in some cases, attempt to satisfy one's partner even if these is no desire in yourself. Sex doesn't always have to be restricted to the typical positions and procedures we were taught or learned to use. And it's not always necessary for both partners to be satisfied. WebMD has some excellent articles regarding sexual matters that can help in this regard.
While on this subject, it's well known that sexual activity is an excellent pain reliever even though it's only temporary. Sometimes the combination of the pleasure along with some pain relief is better than any medicine or pump can provide. We may have to be flexible and innovative to engage in sexual activities when one partner is suffering from chronic pain but it's a very caring and unselfish thing to do for that person even when strong desire is lacking.
Bob
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Hi Chet, My pump is placed just below the belt line and I have no problems wearing jeans. I have not had to change the size of my clothes! This is my 2nd pump. I had the first one for 7 yrs. and had that one replaced with a larger pump this past Feburary.
Hope this helps. Bobbie
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