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I have been married to my husband for 17 yrs.He was diagnosed as biopolar,the first yr we were married,he also deals with anxiety,pannick attacks.This man has been through so much,and I have always been there for him until about 2 yrs ago.I have walked the floors many of nights with him.He started withdrawing from me about 2 yrs ago.He has been on every kind of medicine,and they either quit working or he quits taking them.He has told me for the last 2 yrs that he hates my guts,but he wont leave,he says that he is leaving when the kids are grown.Iadmit that I am really mean to him and say hurtfull things now.I try so hard to get him to understand how I feel.I am so lonely,and I love this man more than anything.He NEVER talks to me,never says anything nice,never buys me anything,never spends time with me,and its really hard because for 15 yrs,he was like a baby leaning on me.He wont admit anything is wrong with him,hes not taking any meds now.He has quit having anything to do with 2 of the kids, and is like a brother to the youngest child,he is 9.He needs help,but says its not him,he told my daughter today that he hated my guts,and that I was posessed with deamons.Is there anyway that I can make him realize????Please I LOVE HIM SO MUCH,and he hurts me so much,is ther anything I can do?
