Bipolar Depression

Hello. This is the first time I have reached out to someone in the public about this situation. You see I have been dating my fience for four years and at the beginning of our relationship everything was fine a perfact. Throughout college (where we met) he became jelious of other men being my friends talking to me, hanging out etc... mean while he thought that it was perfectly ok to go ut to strip clubs ALL the time, talk about women like meat and be a womanizer. From very early in the relationship a good friend of mine told me he might be bipolar so I looked at the sympotoms online and sure enough he has almost all of them. After college we moved out of state away from all his family and friends, basically everything he was comfortable with. The episodes became worse as time went on and still goes on. He now tells me that everything is my fault, I make him misurble, I pulled him away from his family, and when things get really mad he starts hitting things or people such as myself and co-workers. I sometimes wish that he would get fired because of this situation his rage and thoughts of anger or at least ordered to councling just so then he might relize that something is wrong. We have atlked about the situation and I think he knows that he is bipolar but doesnt want to admit it to himself. I got him to go to a doctor once because I told him it was for our relationship so he went, but once he found out it was actully for his bipolar he never went back, in fact tow days later he became very mania and through things against our apartment wall breaking them and hitting me. At that point I went to the doctor we had seem before and she told me that I need to get out of the house. I know I should but it's so hard to see him like this, all I want him to do is get help. After that episode I told him I was not going back until he got help, so we both went to a clinc just for bipolar disorder and when he founfd out that he had to go to group therpy without mehe got out the door and left. I am fearing for my life I don't know if he will get to the point where he will kill me or anything. I love him deep down in side that I don't want to leave him, but I don't know if I really have a choice at this point until he gets better. When I bring up talking to his parnets about it he gets defiense and denys everything. All my close friends know about the situation as well as my mother..... There is just so much stuff I can write about the past four years, but I don't have all night to sit here and post, as soon as he gets home he'll be here right next to me and get mad again if he sees me posting anything. He is so controling of everything I do, I can't even go to the store without him because he is afarid I will meet someone else and runs away, I don't know but sometimes I do want to run away from him.

Please help.