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I have now been married to my wife for just over 6 years. About one year into the marriage I caught her in her first lie to me. Since then I have learned that she has always been willing to lie to get her way or hide something she didnt want known. She is also very noncfrontational afraid of any confrontation in fact. We have never ahd a yelling screaming fight. we have generally hid any negative emotions from the other.
a little over 3 months ago I came home to find her and our 2 children (1 and 3 yo) gone. The next day I learned she had falsely accused me of 1) sexually abusing my daughter, 2) wanting to go an a shooting rampage 3) having child pornography, 4) abusing her emotionally and physically. after reporting this she checked into the local battered womans shelter, where she stayed for a few days before dissappearing and going to another state. She contacted one of her friends and said if i can stay here 6 months I can divorce him and keep the kids.
I have subsequently been cleared of all her allegations and was able to get legal custody in my home state and the state where she was living. While she was there she continued the story that she was fleing from this monster abusive husband who sexually molested her daughter. I was able to take physical custody of my kids last weekend.
I also conversed whith her last weekend and it was NOT the same person I had been married to. I confronted her directly with all the accusations that had been written in the offical report. She denied almost all of it and just claimed to be trying to get to the bottom of "why our daughter was saying what she was saying, and why her behavior changed" Of course there had been no change in our daughters behavior. she denied making allegatins that I physically abused her and that i wanted to go on a rampage. Another interesting thing is the morning of the day she left I kissed her goodbye and she acted very contented at the kiss. When I asked her about it she replied " I am savoring the moment"
my question is does this sound bipolar (I have had some people that know her use that term) and if it is what are the odds of her doing the same thing again at some point?
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