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i was dating a girl that i had dated 25 years prior, everything was going great for a month,treated me like a king and she got the same treatment in return then kinda got the stand offish thing. still said she loved me but did not know what her problem was. says she wanted to spend time with her kids. just sent her 16 year old off to texas for 3 months with his dad. still has a 5 yo with her.. what gives?
It's hard to say, but maybe she felt she was moving "too fast" and felt she should take things slower. You don't say what happened that might make her feel this way. Does she know you are bipolar, for example? (I assume you are since you're writing here.)
Could your mood have changed somehow in a way that worried her? Was the relationship you had with her kids working well?
It seems like you need more info, and maybe there's a low-key way to get it from her? A sincere email or letter?
If she changes things, she has a responsibility to clearly explain why. If you did, you would have to. This isn't fair to you. If she remains distant and doesn't talk, get a new girlfriend.
